Friday, April 17, 2009

Maintenance

Maintaining your car means changing the oil every 2000 miles, or oiling your leather shoes every winter, or using a coaster keeps water rings from staining your coffee table. Objects require maintenance and yet this word has been rolling around in my head about Charlie every day. If he falls asleep while you are bouncing you have to maintain the sleep with bouncing. If he is being patted or swayed, this too must be continued in order to maintain his sleep. If he doesn't get enough sleep during the day, then he won't sleep at night. So even his overall sleep must be maintained.
This is, of course, not a phenomena that is unique to Charlie. All babies like rhythmic movement and/or soothing noise while they fall asleep. When I told Jonathan some people think this is because babies remember being bounced and swayed in their mother's womb, he suggested I go on bed rest for the entirety of my next pregnancy. Since we didn't have the foresight to try this during my pregnancy with Charlie, we have been experimenting with what exactly will maintain our little cherub's sleep. Here is what we have discovered:

Holding Bounce and Sway--

Pros include snuggling with sleepy baby.
Cons are aching arms, tired back, and it's unpredictable success rate.
Produces 20-45 min of sleep...if you can transfer baby to bed without waking.

Sling--
Pros
are having hands free and
Cons
your front sticks out as much as when I was pregnant

Bouncy Seat--


Pros screaming baby is soon reduced to sleeping baby and it only takes a toe to keep it bouncing.
Cons are that you must stay next to the bouncy seat at all times and all the songs in your head, as well as any other task you are attempting end up being done in the same rhythm as the bounce. (For example, I do not recommend brushing your teeth and bouncing a bouncy seat...gums get gouged that way. I've had limited success with chopping veggies, but only if I cut every time my right foot goes down, which makes very slow work of it. )
Produces 45 min nap maximum.

Glider Car Seat Combo is today's experiment and is winning points for both it's hands-free application and for the longevity--2 hours and 15 min so far!

5 comments:

Ande said...

I say, a baby swing and a CD!:) They really are worth the investment, even if you only use them for a few months. It's amazing what some good sleep will do for the two of you:) Good luck girl!

Sarah Partain said...

Amos LOVED his carseat! We would put it in his bed, with him in it, for the first week home! It is a trick to find that sweet spot! You all are doing so well--he looks like such a sweet little guy!

Unknown said...

Hun, it sounds like you could use a swing... Charlie is super cute! I miss you!

Keren said...

Yes, we have decided that the next swing we come across for a reasonable price is coming home with us. =)

Christine said...

Ah yes, the swing seems more and more affordable every day, I'm sure. My nephew slept in his car seat inside his cradle for the first 6 months or so. Peter couldn't nap in his cradle. Kids are weird. You're not the only one!