Saturday, June 11, 2011

Saturdays: Museum of Transportation

While I’m on maternity leave, we have our Saturdays back! It is so fun to wake up and know that we are going to be together as a family instead of splitting up to work and be babysat.

This morning, Jonathan made pancakes and then tried to teach Charlie how to play Connect 4. Charlie played it two-year-old style. Meaning it rapidly turned into a game of who could put the pieces in the fastest. IMG_3375editAfter Wendy had her third breakfast of the day, we headed off to the St. Louis Museum of Transportation. There were lots of HUGE trains and boats and an airplane too. As we drove into the parking lot, Charlie kept saying, "Look at dat, Look at dat!”IMG_3387The boys scouted out all the trains by themselves for a couple reasons. First, Wendy wanted her fourth breakfast, or maybe her first lunch? Then, every time I tried taking her out into the 90+, humid morning, she started crying. It was like a lightswitch: out side= screaming, inside = smiling. So I hung out in the gift shop with her until the boys were ready to tour the indoor car exhibits.

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“Um, yeah, I’m a girl and those trains just don’t interest me!”

“And the heat! It just makes me cross-eyed!”

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“Thank you, I will just sit here and look pretty in the air conditioning!”IMG_3397

On the way home, much past nap time, Charlie quietly stole Wendy’s blanket off the top of her car seat and fell asleep in the car. I have a feeling she is going to be envying those lashes someday! IMG_3400edit

Yeay for Saturdays!

Thursday, June 9, 2011

she has my nose and my toes!

I don’t know why exactly this makes me so happy, but I’m finding there is something really awesome about handing down distinctly recognizable body parts to my girl child.  All the personality and rearing that I pass on will be hers and and a labor of my love, but somehow less obvious.  IMG_3157editBut this nose, those toes are clearly mine, given in gift.   And one day I’m going to be able to say,“Your nose, honey (for better or for worse) is a gift straight from your Mama, and it came from her Mama!”

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Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Wendy goes to a Wedding

When Wendy was two weeks old, she got bundled into her car seat, and then the moby wrap, and then unbundled for security and re-bundled, tucked under the nursing cover more times than I can count, and then bundled back into her car seat.  When it was all over, she was in Ayer MA, ready to attend her uncle Erik’s wedding and meet her great grandparents IMG_3235and all sorts of uncles and aunts and even her cousin Ziva! 

Charlie was a superb traveler and made it through 10+ hours of traveling--including the longest line for security I have ever seen, one cancelled, two delayed flights, a confused car rental clerk, and an hour plus drive without his blankie, which had suffered an unfortunate accident with his milk early on in the trip—all without a nap and never had a meltdown.  That’s one helpful two year old, I say!  And we praised him with many praises! (His Mama and Dada also made it through without any meltdowns.  Thank you to everyone who was praying!)IMG_3246

Thursday morning we recuperated.  Grandma rested in bed and held Wendy while she slept.  I worked on getting dinner ready for the family get-together that evening.  It was really great.  Grandma got her baby holding fix, Wendy stayed asleep as she only does when someone is holding her and I enjoyed having my arms free for a little bit.   ( This picture is obviously not from the sweet hours they spent curled up on Mom’s bed together! ) IMG_3234

It was great to see Jon and Zanna and their 4-day old baby girl!   I thought I was being all ‘my-child-was-born-on-a-leaf-and-now-I’m-going-to-keep-ploughing-the-field’ and all by traveling two weeks after having a new baby.  ( Ziva and Wendy are 11 days apart!)  But if I was being brave, I don’t even know what category Zanna falls into!  I’m so glad they came! IMG_2083

Proud Papa!  ( I know Jon is going to hate me for writing this, but I still cannot believe my baby brother had a baby and is a father!!!!  It blows my mind!  But it was so cool to trade babies with him and talk about soothing techniques and eating schedules.)   He’s an awesome Dad and I’m looking forward to raising our baby girls at the same time!IMG_3236…and introducing…the Jacobson/Marzinke niblings:   Ziva, Charlie and Wendy!!!IMG_3237

On Friday morning, we went to Catherine’s bridal shower.  IMG_3168It was lovely!  Why yes, those are ginger infused carrot cake cupcakes and Prince William’s Chocolate Biscuit Cake  along with all sorts of other melt-in-your mouth goodness behind the bride!  There were so many babies there, that it looked like a baby parking lot in the back room for a while.  IMG_3167Meeting up with my grandma and Aunt Leila and Aunt Alice there just added to the fun.  IMG_3169I was so glad to be able to celebrate Catherine and meet her family!  

Friday night was the Rehearsal Dinner.  We met at a park and had a Philippine style picnic.  Since we ran out of utensils and ate with our fingers and there were mosquitoes the size of butterflies—I’d say it turned out pretty authentic!  IMG_3182Catherine’s sisters both have boys around the same age and older than Charlie.  They brought balls and bats and frisbees to the picnic.  This picture kills me.  It captures the hope and longing in a shy little boy’s heart while he watches those big boys play.  IMG_3172  He did eventually join in the fun!  IMG_3199

Saturday came and there was sunshine!   And the two were made one!   And there were sparkles in their eyes, and handmade pottery cups and father-grown flowers in their hands and joy in their hearts!IMG_3205

And there were approving matriarchs and patriarchs….IMG_3218and much stomping of the feet and sashaying of the hips!IMG_3226My incredibly handsome men dressed up for the wedding with matching Windsor knotted ties.  (Wendy did wear her green knitted dress as planned, but the afternoon was so warm that I had to strip her down to her onsie before I got any pictures!)IMG_3222 edited

Sunday was a recover from the wedding day.   Charlie and Jonathan drove great grandma and great grandpa into the airport.  Apparently they reported to my mom that Charlie didn’t stop talking the whole way there! 

We also had the special treat of having lunch with my 2nd grade teacher, ‘Aunt’ Ginny! She came to the Philippines to teach in our elementary school two separate times, and became a close family friend. I was so glad she could drive down from Connecticut to see us. It was special seeing her and catching up a little! IMG_3242

Monday we flew home.  These pompoms are in Charlie’s bag of airplane toys.  As you can see they are a versatile toy. He became attached to a red one and made a sort of pet out of it while we were gone.  He called it his “fuzzy ball” and insisted on sleeping with it.  IMG_3240

 

ps  This is what happens when you combine a glass of milk with the discovery, as you try to check in online at 7 for a 11am flight, that your flight has been cancelled and they booked you on another flight leaving two hours earlier without telling you:  yummy cheese!!IMG_3248

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

t-ball with wendy

I mustered up the energy this afternoon and decided to take Charlie outside to play t-ball.   IMG_3255edit_thumbYou should have seen the grin on his face when I started pitching the ball to him.  It was so wonderful to spend some time with him, doing what he wanted to do!   And I got a few minutes relaxing in the grass too!   IMG_3257editBaby sister participated by sleeping on the baseball blanket in the grass.  IMG_3252edit_thumb

Friday, May 27, 2011

getting to know you, getting to know all about you….

(Life as the mother of two does not leave me a lot of time for blogging as of yet.   I know it will get better as Wendy grows up (and stops wanting to nurse every hour and a half) and I will learn the tricks to be more efficient at this, but for now forgive me while the posts are sparse.  I’m spending all my non-nursing, hands-free time loving on Charlie (I miss my time with my little boy) and taking care of necessities! 

In the meantime, Miss Wendy has stolen all our hearts around here.   We are loving getting to know her quirks and eccentricities and are literally watching the baby fat fill and bloom around her little flower bud body!IMG_3266editBecause of her reflux, this is her preferred way to sleep.IMG_3277Wendy’s favorite brother!IMG_3139Charlie is such a sweet older brother.  IMG_3159He asks to hold her, or hug her, or spontaneously kisses any part of her that he can reach.  He has noticed what I do when she starts crying and more than once, when I’ve gone into the room to pick her up I have found Charlie already there, bouncing her seat or saying “shhh shhh shhh.” 

The first time I took her to the doctor, Charlie put his cars in her seat —so that she would have something to play with while we waited. (He always gets to pick out a toy or book to take with us when we are going to the doctor.)  I love that you can’t even see her arms!IMG_3104I’ve been trying to take as much time as possible with Charlie, even if it means getting up at 6:15 when he wakes up, and Wendy is still asleep, so that we can see each other just the two of us.  There is Nana here and Dada to take care of him, but I know the transition to being second fiddle is hardest on him. 

Here Mama and Charlie are getting some knitting in while baby sister sleeps.IMG_3108And yes, just as I was warned, Charlie does seem huge now! And older.  I think he has grown in maturity more in the last three weeks than he has in the last three months!IMG_3262Of course, Dada is working hard too.  The question is, why was I even awake to take this picture!!!  =)  IMG_3275edit

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

welcoming wendy brielle

 

On May 4th, after just 3-4 hours of labor,  we welcomed this sweet girl into the world in our own bedroom.  IMG_2891She surprised us and we didn’t get to the hospital until after she was born.  IMG_2937It was a truly beautiful experience and we bless the Lord for giving us the unasked gift of birthing her ourselves.  (more on the birth story later)   IMG_2981 I’ve been finding myself treasuring the joy these new and familiar sights around the house give me.IMG_3028IMG_3069Drunk on milk…IMG_3035Her diapers are so little!IMG_3064Pink is showing up here and there in our house.  …in the “we’re sorry for dropping you, but can’t admit that so we are saying congratulations instead” flowers from the fire department.IMG_3065…and in the amazing cake our neighbor got up at 3 in the morning to make for us!IMG_3041Charlie is loving on baby sister in the ways he knows how—showing her the important things in life, soccer shoes being a prime example!IMG_3062By imitating Mama.   IMG_3161He has the bounce and shush moves down pat!  So much love for this baby girl!IMG_3136Nana came to help us.  She left Monday after doing all the Charlie and cooking and laundry for two weeks!  What a blessing!  I got to cuddle up with my new baby and let the cares of the world slip by.   IMGP0025This Mama is learning how to love two little ones—growing longer arms and balancing needs for attention and nursing.  It is tricky, and I do so want to love them both well!IMG_3116

We welcome you, Wendy Brielle, our daughter and friend who comes in the strength of the Lord!IMG_3076